I’m Aurora Anurca Farber and I am Women's Transformational Coach, Intuitive Guide, Writer, Speaker, Sacred Space Ceremonialist, Way-Finder, Magical Muse and modern-day Priestess.
My mission is to help women get unstuck by reclaiming and igniting their “Feminine Fire”...the heart-light within that integrates life-giving power, compassionate love and intuitive wisdom. These 3 feminine flames are the key to creating a life of passion, pleasure, purpose on the journey of feminine leadership.
I believe that women are works of art and every women is a sacred vessel capable of miraculous creation. To activate that creative shakti fire, we need to come back home to ourselves, to our inner fire...to our feminine fire.
Feminine Fire =
Power, Love & Wisdom
When we do this, by integrating our 3 power centers of womb, heart and mind, we become portals of unlimited creation….whether that is creating a child in the womb, an inspiring business, or a thriving community!
And when we stand together in our creative fire in loving sisterhood, we can change the world.
This vision is my guiding light and gives me hope in a chaotic world. It's light inside me that shines brightly, even in the darkness.
But it wasn't always this way...
Dancing between the shadow and the light
True to my name, Aurora, which means "the dawn", I have always been dancing between the shadow and the light.
Born as a bi-racial Asian-American during the first year that interracial marriages were legal in the US, I grew up navigating two worlds...the world of my white american mother and the world of my Filipino father. Each of them showered me with the gifts of their different cultures.
My mother's gift was and is her unconditional love and kindness, and my father's gift is a deep commitment to family and an insatiable desire to travel the world.
Dancing between shadow and light,
Aurora means "the dawn".
- Life, Love and Adventure
Meeting "the One"...
This combination catalyzed a love of adventure in me. After college, I set off for a 2 month trip to tour Europe. This turned into a 6 year adventure living in Spain and Italy and traveling all over Europe to some of my bucket list destinations: Egypt, Israel, Greece and Turkey.
My biggest adventure, however, came after meeting my soulmate, Rhett. After just 8 days, I knew he was "the one". We were married 9 months later and I moved to Taiwan where he lived. We waited for 5 years to have our first child and spent time pursuing our shared passion of traveling, including 4 months backpacking through Singapore, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Thailand, Cambodia and China. Later we loved Asia so much, we moved to Shanghai, China for almost 10 years!
- Motherhood, the catalyst of my own evolution
She Who Holds...Our children, Aja & Rhys!
But more than traveling and living abroad, Motherhood has been the most encompassing adventure...physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually...and the catalyst of my own evolution as a Transformational Coach for women.
Having a wonderful mother as a role model, I couldn't wait to be a mother. From the moment they were born, I felt blessed to be a mother and loved caring for my children. However, I took on too much responsibility and began to let go of my other passions and desires.
After 5 years of mothering, I longed to do something more, but I didn't know what it was, or how I could possibly make time in my life for anything else when my family seemed to need me so much.
I felt both guilty and resentful for having these feelings. Meanwhile, my focus on parenting led me to neglect focusing on my marriage. My husband and I grew distant and even though we were both Relationship Educators, we stopped practicing the communication skills we knew could help our marriage.
Secretly, I felt overwhelmed, over responsible and lost.
I felt guilty that I wanted something more.
I felt alone, until...
One night I had a dream...
I am at a party and I meet a man with a wig on and try to engage him in conversation.
He looks over me with an air of dismissal.
I feel rejected and collapse into a wheel chair behind me.
As I wheel myself out to a field, I see a woman and several other people on a
They are all singing and praising the Divine. I'm drawn to the energy and love
of this woman.
I'm magnetized to her Joy.
Finding my Sacred Purpose from a Dream...
When I awoke, I knew I had to journal about this profound dream and understand it's soul medicine.
As I engage the character of Mr. Wig and Joy in a conversation, what emerged was the knowledge that my own masculine and feminine were completely out of balance.
I was drowning in the feminine shadow of motherhood...over-giving and lack of self-care. And I had alienated my masculine energy...projecting that energy of being and doing in the world as something dark, selfish and sinister.
I decide to paint the 2 dream characters dancing a tango. As I painted the woman transformed, from being overweight and overburdened, into a woman with a flaming red dress. Her partner, strong and leading the way, provided the structure for her Feminine Fire to light up the canvas.
Finally, I could activate my own masculine desire to do something in the world with my feminine creative impulse in way that was structured, guided and in balance with my life and my desires.
Painting and journaling
as a portal to wisdom.
Igniting my Intuitive Fire and Living my Dream
That's how I ignited my own "feminine fire"---by integrating my inner wisdom from my dream, my passion to make a difference and my energy to follow thru. Soon afterwards I enrolled in an online coaching certification program...after years of being indecisive and scared! I made my goal of becoming a coach a priority and began to organize my life differently, so I had time for my own interests. I discovered my passion was to help other women like myself, reignite their Feminine Fire.
Today, I'm a certified professional coach, a writer and speaker and I love working with women through private coaching, creating and facilitating group coaching programs, and leading women's circles and retreats.
And because, I know the importance of not only igniting my Feminine Fire, but of tending that flame daily, I don't feel overwhelmed or burnout anymore.
Igniting my Feminine Fire...connecting to my 3 power centers of my womb, heart and wisdom is what helped me create my mythic life.
And tending this fire daily, through aligning my energy and rhythm with the moon cycle is what keeps it burning brightly, and keeps me out of overwhelm and burn out.
But best of all, I have time and energy for the my most important job...being a mom, a wife and the feminine leader of my family.
The world needs your gifts,
and your wisdom.
All things are possible!
If you feel out of alignment with your own inner knowing
...if you feel overwhelmed, lost and afraid,
...if you feel an inner ache to be, do or have more,
...if you feel lost in the darkness of confusion,
...Know that transformation is possible for you too.
It can start with just a spark, a longing, a yearning for something different. By creating sacred space for that desire to grow, you can kindle the power, love and wisdom of your own Feminine Fire.
And then who knows what you might do, who you might become, and how you could impact the world!
I'd love to help fan the flame of your awakening sister. Just click the button below to discover the some of the ways I help women awaken their connection to their sacred SHE.